Hi Asim,
There is no single "accepted value" for the externality cost of various pollutants. The determination of these externality costs is highly contentious, depends on many factors, and would require a review of current literature in order to understand the issues and to assign a reasonable value. I'm afraid I'm not familiar enough myself with this literature for NOx and SO2 to be able to recommend a good source.
Since you are unsure which values to use, is it imperative that they be included in your analysis?
Taylor